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WHAT?? Husband watching porn? Really???

Question – I am a 30 year old woman and I have been married for four years. My husband and I are pretty open about talking about sex and nothing goes unsaid. But recently he has been watching a TON of porn, even turning it on during sex! I normally don’t have a problem with porn but it seems like he needs it to finish. Being that I am open minded and casual talking about sex I feel like I should be okay with this, but I am not. It feels awful when he leaves the bed to turn the porn on and then finish. What the hell?

Answer – I understand the feelings that you may be having because your husband needs porn to finish. I have to ask some possibly harsh questions about what is going on. You have been married for 4yrs and are very open to talking about sex. How often are these conversations? Has it been a long time since the last one? Communication is a major role player in some problems. Especially when it comes to this subject. Couples will sometimes close down because of being embarrassed or insecure in the situation. I know this may sound weird, but what kind of porn is he watching? Sometimes couples who have been together for a long period tend to do the same things over and over. They fall into a rut per say. This may be a reason for him wanting to watch the porn to finish. Quite often women think that they are not a turn-on or beautiful anymore. He may just be needing a different stimulation right now. Try watching what kind of video he is watching. This may help you open a topic of discussion or even give you an idea or two about what is popping his cork right now. You have stated many times that you both are open to talking about sex. Then by all means do it instead of trying to read his mind.

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